No King but Christ:
Part 4 – Abortion at a Family Gathering

In our last study, we saw that Christ’s Lordship demands we value life as God does. But what happens when that truth collides with the views of those closest to us?

You’re at a family gathering where the topic of abortion comes up. Some family members argue that a woman’s right to choose should outweigh any moral concerns about taking life. The conversation is tense, and there’s a strong temptation to stay silent to avoid conflict. However, as Christians, we cannot afford to be silent when God’s truth is being denied — especially on matters as foundational as life itself.

“Silence in the face of untruth isn’t love — it’s surrender. Love speaks, even when it costs”

Speaking the Truth in Love

Ephesians 4:15 tells us to “speak the truth in love.” When it comes to abortion, we are called to speak clearly and compassionately about the sanctity of life. You don’t need to launch into a debate. A calm response like this is enough to plant a seed: “I understand this is a weighty and emotional issue, but Scripture is clear that life begins at conception. God made each person in His image, and every life has value — even in the womb.”

“Truth, spoken humbly, can challenge lies even if it doesn’t convince immediately. You're not called to change hearts — you’re called to be faithful.”

Navigating Conflict

1 Peter 3:15 reminds us to “always be prepared to make a defense… yet do it with gentleness and respect.” If things escalate, you don’t need to fight — but you also don’t need to disappear. You might say, “I know this is sensitive, but I can’t separate my view of life from what God has said.” That’s not defiance — it’s discipleship.

Staying Grounded in Christ

Christ’s Lordship means we answer to Him — not to the room. You may lose some approval in the moment, but you gain clarity, courage, and the joy of faithfulness. You're not speaking as a moral superior, but as a servant of the King. Let your confidence rest not in your delivery, but in the truth itself — and the One who gave it.